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Outcast
06-14-2008, 01:47 AM
Needing prayer for my Turkish penpals...that God can help bond our hearts as friends and that as time goes by, i can gradually share the Gospel with them or at least be a refelction of Jesus for them. Very hard to reach Muslims...even Turkish Muslims who are a mix of European and Middle-eastern ways...so far I have about 8 to keep up with and I am learnign Turkish through them and helping them with English:) Prayers especially for my friends Turker and Koray, who are now in the USA for about 2 days, in Pensecola and Washington,DC respectively. They are on work exchange programs where they can come to the USA and work for the summer and get to travel and vacation on the side too.

Also, pray for my friend Cengiz, for the Lord to soften his heart and ease a misunderstanding that may end our friendship. We hit it off very quickly emailing and chatting, both of us are language interested people. Also, we talked about the troubles in the world today and the need for peace in the Middle East and about courageous people in history who dared to risk everythign to fight for love, peace and what they beleived in. I mentioned Corrie ten Boom and how she and her family were Dutch Christians who beleived what the nazi's were doing to the Jews was wrong...and how they risked everythign even their own lives to hide Jews in their homes. He seemd interested when i told him there was a movie about her story and remembered a website where it was available for online viewing in Turkish. Out of respect I did let him know it was a Christian movie but also an incredible story. I dont believe in tricks or conversion games when it comes to being friends with people. Anyway, i gave him the link for the film at sermon.online.de and suddenly he wrote back saying he "didn't like my style" meaning when he explained that i was doing a lousy job at trying to secretly convert him by pretending to be his friend and learning Turkish...and he demanded that I confess the truth...that i was a missionary in secret and he was angry that i linked him to a channel/site with christianity and christian thinking only with the goal of converting him...not really wanting to be a real friend to him. I tried reachign him through email to try and heal things up with him...explaining that i am hs friend and that I am not using him to make a convert. I know some of you can say many things about this. i am not ashamed of jesus or ashamed of preachign the Gospel...but i feel it was the right thing for me to do to apologize for doing anything that could have caused him to misunderstand me and my intentions. I am blessed to have also a friend in Turkey since 2002 and he was online and able to at least counsel me to understand what had happened...to understand that being hit with the website i gave him with "christian thinking" all at once was threatening to him and everything he has known and that probably he had already some dislike and misconceptions about christians. The cool thing was that my old friend also reassured me that i had done nothing wrong...that it was indeed just a terrible misunderstanding. And still encouraged me to seek to reconcile with my friend if possible. Yeah, I have other Turkish friends, but it isnt like a collection, losing one friend would be like the parable of losing that one coin...so pray for healing in this misunderstanding. Well, what can I say...I have Turkish penpals...i love them and I have to love the muslim too...part of the package...so, can you guys still love me too? *hopes he isnt seen as a traitor to God and country*:)

LauraA
06-14-2008, 07:16 AM
I think that what you are doing is right. People need to trust us first before they will trust our God. Establishing friendships is an important part of soul winning. You didn't tell him that you were sorry for being a Christian, but you were sorry that the site was a little too overpowering, right? That's understandable. There will be a time and a season for your friends' hearts to be open to Jesus, and in the meantime, you are their friend. One day you will be their link to Him... when they are ready.

I'll pray that their hearts become open to the One True God soon.

Outcast
06-15-2008, 09:08 PM
Thanks for the support, prayers and encouragment, Laura...and also others who read this and I know are praying even though I may not always see a posted reply:) No, I didn't apologize for being a Christian...only for leading him to the website and offending him...truthfully saying that was the only place I have known where to find the film. Actually, i am rather shocked by this entire reaction because usually in Turkey and certain other places in the Middle East, once you make a friend you always have a friend even though there may be offenses and arguments sometimes. I remember when I was chatting with my pal Adnan from Iraq once. He opened the discussion once while talking "religion and told me to tell him what Christians believed...more specifically what I believed...so I did:D After a few minutes of yahoo chat quietness, he responded: If I not love you now I would say things hurt you. please never say these things to me again. (yeah, i remember the exact broken english he used). Point is, the bond of friendship meant more than the "religious offense". It broke my heart to learn that he was in Turkey as an exchange student and that his family made him stay there when the war broke out in Iraq...he is from Mosul. He only managed to go home once for almost a week risking it to see his mom when she needed a special leg operation once. But I at least can let him know that i care about him...ask about his family...and let him know i am praying for him and for them and their safety always.
As for my friend from Turkey who is angry and may have completely cut me off in all net communication, i can only hope and pray he will come around. Maybe as he uses the links I gave him to really learn English well and the Italian language goodies, he will remember the talks, the laughing and friendship and all the cool stuff we have in common. I hope so!

Outcast
06-15-2008, 09:18 PM
One cool thing I did get put in my hands however was from my friend Can (pronounced like "John") who speaks a little English and grabbed the first thing he could find online to explain a Muslim sacrifice of a bull that is a yearly event/festivity in the Islamic faith.

http://www.answering-islam.org/Gilchrist/Vol2/4c.html

BUT take a look at what the link really is:):)

http://www.answering-islam.org/Gilchrist/Vol2/

How funny that my Turkish friend accidently by human standards put this tool in my hands about outreaching to Muslim firends and neighbors. THAT had to be God!:):)

Outcast
06-24-2008, 11:43 AM
Wow, guys, prayers are definitely needed here, just got this email today so I will share it:) Either I have maybe a rare Turkish christian here or definitely opportunity to share as the friendship grows:):)

hello how are you ?? I am from penpal..what do yu want to know about turkey ? i can help you, also i can help you with turkish and ottoman history since i have been studying history at college,and also i am tourish guidance in istanbul so dont hesitate to ask anything at all,by the way i really appreciate your faith to god, keep it up. best wishes Hakan

LOL...i have heard it said that "with rejection comes promotion" as we reach out to share the Gospel:)