Help please

[krazyyouth]

Hey will i kinda have a small problem there is this person that i truly do care about and i cant get them off my mind what should i do i might see him in July when i go redue my state test or i might not see him till August..... What should i do ????

[LauraA]

More info needed....

Have you prayed about this relationship?
What did you hear from the Lord about it?

How old is he
How much older that you is he?


Have you asked for your parent's input?
What do they think?

Laura:)

[krazyyouth]

Ok it's not being in love with the guy he is maybe in his early 30's. its they young man that he has helped me out so much this past 2 years and. he is a Christen and he went on tour with his band but every since I left school on the 5th of June I really haven’t been able to quit thinking about but I was able to get him off my mind for a little while but then he was on my mind again. Me and mom were talking about me getting a mentor that will catch me before I fall and that. I was like ok what you mean? my mom told me when they make sure go do the right thing and I was like when Mr.G had told me not to have people stop me doing what I enjoy doing she was like yes and I told her I think I have one already and its Mr.Guikema aka Mr.G I asked her why is it that I cant get him off my mind. She said maybe its because you care about him. I was like ok she told me to pray for him and that but I have been since school got out and that. I prayed and prayed and I think that all God wants me to do is just pray for him maybe he wants me to pray for him because he might be praying for me I just don’t know I’m not giving hope. I try to remember my dreams because maybe that’s were God to me figure why I’m thinking about him or something like that
I don’t know if it is because I might not see him every again after next school year.
But I think I do love him but not in that kind of a way. I love him like a brother type of thing like a Christian brother or even a "dad." (don’t take this the wrong way)
Mr.Guikema cared so much about me. When me and him were talking one day... I was having a really bad day and what he was telling me I needed to hear it but I have taken his advice that he has gave me and put them in my heart. But that day I was being picked on all day 1-4 periods and I was fed up with it and I told him and he told something that maybe me think but it was something I need to hear and it kind of made me cry but he didn’t hurt me it was just a bad day for me, he’s there for me when I need him!
That’s why I might see him when I go retake my State Test for math but I might not I might not even see him until the last week in Aug when school starts up again.

I hope this helps